Pre-nuptial agreements are not new to the UK. But for many years, they were seen as the preserve of the ultra-rich – or of glamorous fictional couples in imports like Sex and the City and The Devil’s Advocate.
And, more often than not, these fictional prenups were dressed up in distinctly unromantic narratives. It was a stock storyline: a whirlwind affair, a hasty proposal, the suggestion of a prenup and an equally hasty breakup. Script done.
Times, however, have changed. Pre-nuptial agreements are becoming more common in the UK – and a
full third of 18- to 24-year-olds say they would
prefer
to have a pre-nuptial agreement if they were getting married for the first time. In the same survey, just 23% said they'd rather tie the knot without one.
And while 70% of all Britons still say they'd "feel worse" about a relationship if their partner asked for a prenup, it's not seen as a recipe for a short marriage. Fifty-one percent of survey participants agreed that a prenup would "make no difference to the chance of divorce" – while eight percent felt it would reduce it.
Is a prenup the sensible option?
This data tells a very different story to those cut-and-paste Hollywood prenup scripts. While pre-nuptial agreements still leave a sour taste in pre-marital mouths, it seems they're increasingly seen as a sensible option – a charge led by the
money-savvy Generation Z.
And it makes sense. Scriptwriters have done their best to paint prenups as being unromantically pragmatic – but are they really that different from car, life or home insurance?
In broad strokes, pre-nuptial agreements are a kind of marriage insurance – a way of protecting your assets, time and well-being in the event of divorce or dissolution.
But unlike car and home insurance, you can't visit a comparison website and buy a policy off the shelf. Prenups are more complicated than that. Not only do they require professional legal advice, but all parties must enter into the agreement with a full understanding of the facts too.
So let's cover some of the most important facts, myths and misconceptions about prenups. If you're considering a pre-nuptial agreement, these truths might help you come to a decision.
Pre-nuptial agreements: the facts
1. Prenups are not legally binding in England and Wales
This is where real-life pre-nuptial agreements most differ from their silver-screen counterparts.
That's because Hollywood screenwriters largely base their portrayals on US law. In the States, prenups are legally binding if drawn up and executed properly.
In England and Wales, however, prenups are
not
legally binding documents.
So, what's the point? Well, pre-nuptial agreements might not be strictly legally binding, but they can – and often
do
– influence court decisions regarding the division of assets after divorce.
From a purely practical point of view, it's always better to have a prenup to fall back on should the marriage fail. But for a prenup to be recognised and upheld by the court, it has to meet certain criteria.
The court will consider:
In Scotland – as is
often the case – things are a little different. There, pre-nuptial agreements usually
are
seen as being legally enforceable.
2. Prenups are not a "one-and-done" deal
A pre-nuptial agreement is a living document. It should be regularly updated to reflect the changing circumstances of your marriage and your wealth.
How regularly? It varies from couple to couple, but a sensible average is every five years.
If you don't update your prenup, you risk diluting its chances of being upheld in court. After all, if one spouse has received a hefty inheritance since the agreement was signed, it somewhat changes the balance of assets on which it was drawn up.
Pre-nuptial agreements should also be updated to factor in major life events, such as the birth of a child.
3. Prenups are not the only type of marital property agreement
To have the best chance in court, a pre-nuptial agreement should be signed at least 28 days before the wedding. Ideally, couples should start discussing the particulars of a prenup at least three to four months before exchanging vows.
This is to avoid duress. If a prenup was drawn up with mere days to spare, it's easy for one side of the couple to argue that they were coerced into signing – or entered the agreement without all the facts.
So, what should you do if you want a pre-nuptial agreement but you've left it a little late?
One option is the prenup's lesser-known cousin: the post-nuptial agreement, or postnup.
A postnup is, more or less, a prenup made after the "nup". It serves the same purpose and is not strictly legally binding.
However, postnups may be
more
likely to succeed in court. This is because questions of coercion are less likely to be raised.
Technically speaking, any revisions to a pre-nuptial agreement are, in fact, post-nuptial agreements, since they're drawn up after the wedding has taken place.
Finally, there are separation agreements.
As the name suggests, these are contracts that set out arrangements for separating couples. They often cover things like finances, property and living arrangements for children.
Married couples often make separation agreements when they know they want to separate but are not sure whether they're ready to divorce. However, they're also made by unmarried cohabiting couples, who don't enjoy the same legal protections as married partners.
Like pre- and post-nuptial agreements, separation agreements are not strictly legally binding but can be upheld in court – especially if it's written by a qualified
family solicitor.
Milners is a trusted law firm based in Yorkshire, UK. Are you looking for legal help to draw up a pre- or post-nuptial agreement? Our family law experts pride themselves on offering practical, no-nonsense support and jargon-free advice. Feel free to
get in touch for a free initial consultation.
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